Sugar- Elliot was going to call Kathy to let her know he won't be coming home anytime soon
Perverted- Elliot called Kathy to let her know he'll be working late. However, she reminded him about Elizabeth's school play; he called her "Babe"
Shadow- Elliot took Kathy and the kids to her sister's for safety when a threat was made
Beef- Elliot loved his wife but doesn't put blades on her toenails to watch her gorge out her girlfriends' eyes